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    I am Zinta Harris. I live in Brisbane, Australia with my husband of 25 years, Craig (known by most as Harry) and our two children Teja and Zigi. I am a specialist wills and estates lawyer by day and inspiration seeker by night. I help Australian families navigate the legal fallout after the loss of a loved one in a calm and compassionate way. My mood is better after a daily double shot coffee and a glass or two of bubbles. I get my energy from people. My superpower is encouraging others. It is my sincere hope that this blog will encourage you. I hope it gives you a chance to chime in with your experience or to feel part of a community that has walked through a valley and made it through. Read about me

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    https://resolveestatelaw.com.au/

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    There was an interesting program on @insightsbs la There was an interesting program on @insightsbs last night about Inheritance. 
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My key takeaways:
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💌Holding conversations about Inheritance before death WITH your family can save so much heartache after you are gone. 
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💔Escalating conflict by diving into litigation to contest an estate can cost your family everything.
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❤️‍🩹Taking on an executorship can take a massive toll on those who choose to take on that responsibility (it is a choice by the way - you don't have to accept such an appointment).
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💓Having no expectation of an Inheritance brings freedom and breeds self sufficiency and drive.
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💕Finding unique ways to use a modest Inheritance to honour those from whom it has been received can have a profound impact. 
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You can watch the full episode on SBS on demand. 
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If you want to know more about how you can hold conversations with your family about Inheritance in a way that will spare your family heartache - please reach out - it is the very reason I wrote my book "Rest in Peace" (you can order your own copy via the link in my bio 👆)
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#Inheritance #collaborativeestates #compassionwhenyouneeditmost
    How are you with change? 💫 Do you resist it or How are you with change? 💫

Do you resist it or embrace it?🥰

Sometimes when change happens beyond our control we find it harder to accept. If we chose a new path it can be easier. 💕

You don't have to wait for the time to be right - a new beginning starts when you chose it.💥

#newbeginnings #newweek #newmindset #newgovernment #mindsetmonday
    Still in luuurve 28 years later.💖👰‍♀️🤵🏼‍♂️💖
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Lucky enough to celebrate with a beautiful dinner at @detourrestaurant and a sneaky staycation @sofitelbrisbanecentral. 💋🍾🍽😋
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Thanks to Keithy and @roslyn.harris.716
for minding the kids for us!👴👫🧑‍🦳
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And thank you at @francescasflowers for this stunning arrangement! I'm rating it as my favourite one ever - I love it! ❤️ 💐❤
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#happyanniversarymylove #lovebirds❤️ #happilymarried #stongertogether #foreverlove❤️ #partnersincrimeforlife #maymadness
    While celebrating Craig's birthday this week - he While celebrating Craig's birthday this week - he decided to surprise us - announcing the news that we could get a puppy dog! 🐶
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Those who know me, know how long the campaign for a dog has been (far longer than the Australian Election Campaign that's for sure)! So I know you will celebrate this win with me! 🥳
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This has however come as a surprise (even to me) since we truly had lost all hope that Craig would ever change his mind! 😲
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So now the research on dog type begins! 🐕🦮🐶🐩🐕‍🦺
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Our thinking is a small-ish dog (one that doesn't need loads of exercise but also won't expect to be carried). Low-sheding fur (is that even a thing?) allergy friendly with a good temperament. 🥰
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Still tossing up between adopting a dog or buying a puppy from a breeder. Not sure I am ready to embrace another season of sleepless nights and toilet training! 😬
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So dog-lovers out there - hit me up with your suggestions and tips! 👋
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#dogloversofinstagram #dogowners #dogbreeds #puppiesofinstagram #puppytips
    Happy birthday to my "prince" Craig! 🤴🏼 . I Happy birthday to my "prince" Craig! 🤴🏼
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I might not be able to spoil you with a stay in an Italian palace this year but I know you would much prefer to be surrounded by your family! 💞
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We love you more than words could say and we are so grateful for all the ways you love us back so fiercely! 💝
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The festival of Craig has already begun and will continue - so enjoy all the love that comes your way today. You deserve it all! 🥰
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#happybithday #manofmydreams #loveofmylife💕 #festivalofyou #maymadness
    Here comes the sun do, do, do, do...🌞 . Celebra Here comes the sun do, do, do, do...🌞
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Celebrating a sunny Monday morning in BrisVegas after the rainy days we have been having of late. 🌤
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I love it when the sun comes back. It always does. 😘
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How about you? Do you prefer sunny blue skies? or are you just as happy with the cloudy, rainy, cold ones?😍
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#newweek #newfocus #newbegining #MindsetMonday #herecomesthesun
    Goodness knows we could all do with a laugh! . Go Goodness knows we could all do with a laugh! 
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Goodness knows we could all support the arts!
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Brisbane Comedy Festival allowed us to do both! 
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#laughteristhebestmedicine #supportthearts #comedygold #brisbanecomedyfestival
    My beautiful #latviangirl @teja.harris proudly rep My beautiful #latviangirl @teja.harris proudly representing #latvia🇱🇻 at her school cultural night! ❤️ 
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Weaving her own flower wreath "vainags" with an Aussie twist (Eucalypt leaves) had me bursting with pride! 🥰
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Who we are, where we come from, our heritage, our roots, our culture and our traditions - are all part of the tapestry of our lives. 💫
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I am so grateful Teja embraces all parts of her cultural DNA! 💞
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#whodoyouthinkyouare #culturematters #knowyourhistory #latvianandproud
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